Thanks Bukley, I like the way Seamonkey handles the tabs, for me this is kind of a non issue, since I can see what tabs are open, and details about the page they are on. Now I got the screen shots of it :

Notice on the far right, I have a list of what the tabs are, it is in a left to right order, the current active one is in bold text.
I can select and click any of those tabs in the list and it takes me to that page.
Also in the next screen shot, when I pass over the tab with my mouse, it shows all of it.
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This is when I pass the mouse over the 2nd tab, which is the index page.
It displays the dropdown window, which also disappears when the mouse is no longer on it, so it does not disrupt the view.

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I am pretty sure the forum admin has better things to do then trying to reconfigure the forum software so that every one has tabs exactly like they want, especially when it can be done by configuring the browser. But then
again, probably I am wrong, as usual.