so here's the problem:
i run a custom kernel, and i have no will to keep a unpacked kernel source into /usr/src (i found out that the default driver from nvidia.com requires it). So i installed kernel headers for my custom kernel and then used module-assistant to create nvidia-kernel for my kernel (module-assistant auto-install nvidia) and everything worked out just great (offcourse together with nvidia-glx ; nvidia-kernel-common etc) - i was playing quake3 etc. untill the reboot - after that it (X) didn't work saying "failed to initialize nvidia module" - i repeated the same procedure twice and it seems that nothing changes. everything runs perfect till you reboot. why so?
Scheduled Maintenance: We are aware of an issue with Google, AOL, and Yahoo services as email providers which are blocking new registrations. We are trying to fix the issue and we have several internal and external support tickets in process to resolve the issue. Please see: viewtopic.php?t=158230