puffer wrote:So I installed the drivers from the official Nvidia website,
I think the wiki makes clear why this is a bad idea. Enjoy.
puffer wrote:but my external display wouldn't be identified
User-space utilities for managing external displays are wayland compositor dependent. On wlr-roots we use wlr-randr. I have no idea what you mean by "can't be identified." You should manage your display through your desktop environments display settings.
puffer wrote:I'm on KDE Plasma, wayland; my laptop has 2 graphics cards as mentioned above. I'd like to have the iGPU work most of the time and the dGPU summoned once necessary (for a render or playing a game per say).
On Nvidia Propietary Drivers this technology is known as Nvidia OptimusTM.
https://wiki.debian.org/NVIDIA%20Optimus
now they work and when necessary they appear (like magic). I would like to know how to summon them though,
They as in the NVIDIA driver? This is the only thing I think you could be referring to, and I have no idea what "summoning" means here.
puffer wrote:The only issue now is really how to control the GPU since in wayland I can't use nvidia-settings.
No clue what you mean. The management frontend in NVIDIA is mainly just a duplication of efforts to control the X-server that already exist in X userspace utilities (Xrandr), the idea is that configuration should be GPU-Agnostic, a GPU "settings" panel is largely a Windowsism. You should manage your display settings using your Desktop Environments display manager.
Your experience with Wayland with the NVIDIA propietary driver is just going to be more rabbit-holes and other pitfalls. My recommendation is to use the much more mature system for managing your display. The X11 Display Server.
https://wiki.debian.org/Xorg
If you want to use Wayland for all of its benefits, you should use the Nouveau display driver. But this will have poor support with your RTX 3060.
Welcome to proprietary hell.
Hope that helps.